Prometheus wrote:And then something happened: the true tragedy of the series isn't in the words, it's between the lines. Perhaps i'm the only one who feels uncomfortable at the vague sexism written into Sansa, into Caitlyn, into Cersei. Perhaps i'm the only one who grows increasingly annoyed by Jon Snow's Mary Sue development and progression. But i can't be the only who who feels like Martin destroys beloved characters merely to keep readers coming back.
The 'vague' sexism? I'm not sure what you mean with regards to those three characters? The sexism in the books is obvious enough that it beats you around the head constantly (is there an unnamed woman in a scene? Better believe that she's either a whore, being shagged, or has children), but the protagonist women are the most interesting I think and the three you mention are three of my favourites as strong females in the book. Arya and Brienne are 'strong' in their own way, but they are strong by denying their sex (and emulating men). Sansa, Caitlyn and Cersei by contrast have to be feminine and yet still find a way to survive in spite of that.
Some thoughts (directed at the notion of sexism in general and in the books):
Sansa believed she was a fairytale princess whose sole life aim was to become a wife and mother to a shining white knight or prince. She has had her expectations repeatedly destroyed and is only now learning how to stand on her own feet. When Sansa's story is finished I expect her to be stronger than any of them. Broken-hearted maybe, but strong.
Caitlyn is a mother who for the most part wants to go home and be with her children. Is that sexist? Or the legitimate desires of an aging woman who already lived through one war and almost lost everything? Why shouldn't she desire the peace of a quiet family life? And for that matter, why should family and motherhood be ever be 'weak' choices?
Cersei is an absolute bitch, but does the wrong things for the right reasons (her children). She often complains that she should have been born a man, and I think a lot of her story comes from the fact that she has always been sidelined in favour of her brothers. Even Tyrion got more respect than she did from their father (when he was named as Hand for example). She is neither as cool-minded as Tyrion nor physically strong like Jaime, so who does she get to be? In a court full of men how CAN she have a place beyond being the mother of the king?
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I will give you Jon Snow though - his progression is somewhat unlikely, though again you need to bear in mind that amongst all of the other Night's Watch who are rapists, murderers, thieves, bandits and the rest, he is the only one who appears to have gone their willingly, as the (bastard) son of a lord, with all the arms- and book-learning that would have gone with it. So yes, he's young and unlikely, but he is at least competent. His faults I think are mostly his youth.
Regarding the length, I can see what you mean there as well. The books are long and there's not a lot going on for long periods, but I really love Martin's style of writing and actually really enjoy just immersing myself in his work, even if it's just a description of a street market or something
