Blessed art thou, who hath never commited a deed of foolishness in moment of desperation, in ignorance or for simple folly.
For thou art gifted with far poorer memory than others.
See, the biggest take away from Minmax is... That he's stupid. Pure and simple.
And both pure, like a child never learned in ways of the world and absolutely, painfully simple in many a wrong way.
Calling him out from acts of utter idiocy is in kin of being baffled of a person with busted legs being slow.
Does it mean he's beyond fault? Heck, no. But you have to factor in that he, like the cripple, is absolutely slow.
And he was in a situation where he had to act fast, with seemingly very few options. And did I already mention he's stupid?
Taking the leash was probably the single last idea he had that he could get Kin ever to listen to him, ever again.
Smart? No. Forgivable? Hardly. In a moment Kin already questioned her trust towards Minmax? Expertly bad timing. Believable? Actually... Yes.
And the moment he realised what he had done, he... Was again confused. Lost.
...
Are you sure I emphasized that he's stupid? Bit like, enough?
He tried to apologize. A lot. But even he knew he had crossed a lined. Hell, he picked a fight with Dellyn THE GOBLIN SLAYER over this. His hero. The moment he heard what the guy was doing to A MONSTER. And now he had pretty much done the same to Kin himself.
Yeah. He apologized. There was nothing more he could do. He tried to even explain, begged, tried to strike a deal...
But in the end, he drank the tea and left. Just that. He knew he could do no more. He had done too much.
Now Kin...
There's a smart cookie, if we ever saw one. Even more so than some of her alternate version, as we've seen.
So why come back? Especially after all that? Boy, is that poor penpersonship.
Oooor... Is it?
See. Kin, like mentioned, is smart. Even with the oblivion holes, she could see thing that were missing from the outlines the disappeared entity left after it. She saw the cookie cut space in time and space of things gone by oblivion.
She knew she trusted Minmax. Why? She couldn't tell. Especially after the leash. But there was something. Again, she knew she trusted Minmax, so logically there had to be reason for it.
Now forward some time, lot of dungeon running and above all, more time to think what, why and how. Again, Kin is absolutely smart little egghead. She quite likely starts to see the picture around the one thing she is missing. The why.
She thinks back to the reason of the trust, the moments that caused her to trust, she even remembers the words she exchanged with Ruby. She start to see the whole picture with the hole in middle of it.
She thinks Minmax a lot. Once more, she knows she trusts him. She thinks back what they've gone through.
And above all else, she knows one thing, because once more, she's smart: Minmax. Is stupid. But she also trusts him.
So all in all. It's not illogical for her to come to a conclusion that she indeed does trust Minmax and though she does not still fully know why (that part was destroyed [unless she managed to somehow recreate it with the gears]) and she knows why Minmax did perhaps the most stupid thing possible at the worst possible time... 'Cose he's stupid.
Now. If you're still with me (first of all, thank you for entertaining my ramblings), the conclusion:
-Did Minmax do the most stupid thing he could? YES!
-Does he deserve to be forgiven, 'cose he's stupid? No.
-Can he be forgiven, stupid OR not? Yes.
-Should Kin forgive him? Maybe. Maybe not. Depends on Kin.
-Did he do something that no-one ever in their right mind or even bereft of it would do and is Kin's return the most illogical thing to ever be done by such logical creature? NO.
I say, with fair bit of trust in the following truth, that there has never been, is or will be, a creature that would not be capable of this kind of idiocy, even with all the good, hopeful and best intents in mind, if the right circumstances presented themselves.
And that there will forever be, even if only one singular creature, who's willing to forgive them.
Thank you for your time and keep on always striving for good, just and noble actions, but be ready to forgive yourself and those around you when it fails, while always remembering, you never have to forgive, but you always can.