Adrena is old, and smart, and an elf. So she must know what she is doing.
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Kaliss does seem strong, and competent. But he acts like a monster, so at the moment Tokryn regards him like an intelligent dog: useful, but needing to be on some kind of leash. But he wont try to impose that, especially now.
Just something about the ages:
Tokryen is 2 years below the starting age, so yes, he is a bit young. But Adrena is not old and wise, she is still very young for an half-elf with being 29. She is about 145% of her race's starting age. Kaliss, with being 20 and his race having a starting age of 15 is not that far below with 133%. For Tokryen with being at 85% of his race's starting age, this should be nearly the same estimated age for both in proportion to their race's lifespan.
Just don't assume something and then build up things on it, check it first, learn your facts. You invest so much time in OOC, you should have time for that. Else the base of all you do is wrong and makes things unstable. There are character sheets, which prove the quote above just wrong. She is not an elf, she is an half elf. Those age around 1.25 slower than humans, but not as much as an elf, who ages 5 times slower than a human. The only thing correct was smart. One out of three is below random
guessing.
I also oppose to "Kaliss acts like a monster". He does not. He does talk, he is social, he has traditions, culture and a religion. He can write several languages, and he is smart and wise. So don't compare him to a dog. He might be a bully and brutal in fight if, depending on the situation, but he also explained a lot about his culture. You just chose to either not read or not react on that.
If you would put half as much time and effort into paying attention to other chars, as you put in OOC, much could have been avoided. Try to treat it like a mission briefing, with a copy that at the end, to show others you got what they said. I currently feel too often like the mission is "go to left" and you walk right and then explain why you went right and not left, and why it maybe was not totally wrong, and even ask everybody else to also walk right, instead of correcting the mistake, apologizing and just get over it.
Half-Elf
Starting Age 20 years
Middle Age 62 years
Old2 93 years
Venerable 125 years
Maximum Age +3d20 years
Goblin
Starting Age 14 years
Middle Age 30 years
Old 45 years
Venerable 60 years
Maximum Age +2d10 years
Troglodyte
Starting Ages 15 years
Middle Age 35 years
Old 53 years
Venerable 70 years
Maximum Age +2d20 years
Lizardfolk, and Troglodytes
Races of Faerun states that both age at the same rate as humans.